I recently listened to a podcast discussion about the merits (or not) of using red letters to indicate Jesus’ words in the Bible. One of the reddest sections of the New Testament is Matthew chapters 5-7, and right in the middle Jesus says this:

"And when you fast, do not look gloomy like the hypocrites, for they disfigure their faces that their fasting may be seen by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward. But when you fast, anoint your head and wash your face, that your fasting may be seen by others but by your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you" (Matthew 6:16-18). 

Today’s culture is about the optics, as apparently was the culture in Jesus’ day. When we serve God it can be tempting to let it turn into a spiritual merit badge as we tell people what we’re doing, often with a disfigured face to show the extent of our sacrifice and discomfort.

A related verse (although not red letters) has a similar theme:

"Each person should do as he has decided in his heart—not reluctantly or out of compulsion, since God loves a cheerful giver" (2 Corinthians 9:7). 

The common thread is that our outward demeanor reflects our heart. God is wanting cheerful givers and willing service, not disfigured faces and reluctant giving. Lord, help us live wholeheartedly for you as we serve others in our families, our church, our jobs, and our relationships.